being complicated.

i think i’ve perfected the art sometimes.  I mean i’m very open and easy to read, but man my rules get all kinds of mixed up sometimes.

heres a big question for right now… I have 2 conflicting beliefs: If i like someone and she is happy in a relationship already.  See..i believe if i like someone i should tell them and at least try, not enough to invade her life, and if she isn’t interested of course back off, but there is no reason not to try usually, right?  But i also have a bad habit of, despite my not really trying, having relationships end when i get interested in someone…so telling someone i like could have a bad ending if that relationship was ended as a result of me, particularly because i’m leaving soon, so anything i did now would just be doomed.

I also believe that if someone is happy in a relationship then i should avoid interfering, particularly if i’m not invited to do so.

I know what i’m going to do, but what would you do?